Our thoughts affect each other. Notice how you feel about yourself when you are around certain people, chances are this is how they see you. Take a few moments to notice this today. Once you realize how other people see you affects how you feel about yourself, you will begin to see that how you see other people affects them as well. See the best in people. Help them to see the best in themselves, which in turn, will help them see the best in you.
If you look closely enough, intent upon understanding those things that cause you great pain and consternation, ultimately, I promise you, you’ll find great joy and illumination.
Take the bait,
The Universe
(con·ster·na·tion (k
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Just be yourself. Whoever you might be in each given moment. However often it changes or unstable it may seem. Anyone that deserves your love, will still love you. In every perfect moment, and in every insane one as well. And there is no better way to come back to center than to allow yourself to feel whatever you feel and be whomever you are at this moment.
When you are true to yourself, everything seems to just fall into place.
If only someone told me at that age that at some point pussy would control my life, I wonder if I would be a different person today. We’ve all been there. Don’t front. There is always that one woman that has it so good it takes you months to get away even though the relationship failed long before. Or maybe it’s the girl who was supposed to be a one night stand that turned into a half a year or more of one night stands. You know what I’m talking about. I can see you smiling.
I will tell you right now though. IT’S A TRAP! If you see this happening to you, run for your life. Women are way too emotional for sex to be “just sex”. It might be the first couple of times, but then someone will almost always fall in love. What they don’t realize is that they are really just in love with the good lovin’. If they could have just kept it simple, the good lovin’ could continue. Now instead, you have a dilemma on your hands. One girl wants the sex but not the relationship and the other wants more than just sex.
This is where things can get extra complicated because even though the girl who is in love wants more than just sex, it is now a weapon. She gives it up more. She ups her game. She does things you’ve always fantasized about. Catering to your every sexual desire. She keeps you coming back for more. And you are now a victim of pussy control.
You know on some level that this broad is bad for you but you are addicted to a new level of sensual experiences. You do your best to make the “relationship” work, but in reality the only thing that is working is the sex. You may even meet a new girl that is amazing in every way, but you can’t make a move knowing that if it doesn’t work out you’ve lost out on what you have labeled “the best sex ever”. If this is happening to you right now, you may be an addict and victim of pussy control and may need to seek professional help. Immediately. Walk away and don’t look back.
I’m serious about this. Take a chance. Let it go. Make a move on that new girl that enthralls you in every way. Because I guarantee that she is not gonna wait around for you to get your head out of pussy land long enough to realize that the “great sex” is not worth losing out an a great relationship.
So in conclusion, though it seems like the most amazing sex you’ve ever had, watch out that it’s not just pussy control. Because the only outcome that can possibly occur in the end are a bunch of broken hearts and no one getting what they really wanted in the first place. Falling prey to pussy control= a lose-lose-lose situation.
May you and your loved ones be armed with the clarity of sight to stay miles away from pussy control this holiday season. And forever.
-Natty B.
You can pretend only to a point. Truth always triumphs. Better to just recognize truth for truth from the start.
When you’ve done all you can, all there is left to do is surrender and let the chips fall where they may.
There is a tendency to regret the most, not what you’ve done, but the things you didn’t.
Everything is what it is. It can never be anything else. No matter how much you might wish or imagine it could be different. Learn to be at peace with what is. Only then do you have the choice to change it.
Honesty is really the best policy. Put it all on the table. Show me yours and I’ll show you mine. That way everyone can make real choices. It may not be the most comfortable thing to do. Truth hurts. Everyone knows this. What people don’t know is how much not telling the truth hurts in the long run.